“Do not enjoy yourself. Enjoy dances and theaters and joy-rides and champagne and oysters; enjoy jazz and cocktails and night-clubs if you can enjoy nothing better; enjoy bigamy and burglary and any crime in the calendar, in preference to the other alternative; but never learn to enjoy yourself.

“Do not look at the faces in the illustrated papers. Look at the faces in the street.”

“When giving treats to friends or children, give them what they like, emphatically not what is good for them.”

“I agree with the realistic Irishman who said he preferred to prophesy after the event.” 

“Misers get up early in the morning; and burglars, I am informed, get up the night before.”

“A change of opinions is almost unknown in an elderly military man.” 

“The act of defending any of the cardinal virtues has today all the exhilaration of a vice.”

“A dead thing can go with the stream, but only a living thing can go against it.”

“Fallacies do not cease to be fallacies because they become fashions.”

“Impartiality is a pompous name for indifference, which is an elegant name for ignorance.”

“An inconvenience is only an adventure wrongly considered; an adventure is an inconvenience rightly considered.” 

“What embitters the world is not excess of criticism, but an absence of self-criticism.”

“He is a [sane] man who can have tragedy in his heart and comedy in his head.” –

“Among the rich you will never find a really generous man even by accident. They may give their money away, but they will never give themselves away; they are egotistic, secretive, dry as old bones. To be smart enough to get all that money you must be dull enough to want it.”

“Moderate strength is shown in violence, supreme strength is shown in levity.” 

“The simplification of anything is always sensational.”

“Customs are generally unselfish. Habits are nearly always selfish.”

“I believe what really happens in history is this: the old man is always wrong; and the young people are always wrong about what is wrong with him. The practical form it takes is this: that, while the old man may stand by some stupid custom, the young man always attacks it with some theory that turns out to be equally stupid.”

“The center of every man’s existence is a dream. Death, disease, insanity, are merely material accidents, like a toothache or a twisted ankle. That these brutal forces always besiege and often capture the citadel does not prove that they are the citadel.”

“The person who is really in revolt is the optimist, who generally lives and dies in a desperate and suicidal effort to persuade other people how good they are.”

“To have a right to do a thing is not at all the same as to be right in doing it.”

“All the exaggerations are right, if they exaggerate the right thing.”

“The comedy of man survives the tragedy of man.” 

“We have had no good comic operas of late, because the real world has been more comic than any possible opera.”

“When learned men begin to use their reason, then I generally discover that they haven’t got any.” 

“The free man owns himself. He can damage himself with either eating or drinking; he can ruin himself with gambling. If he does he is certainly a damn fool, and he might possibly be a damned soul; but if he may not, he is not a free man any more than a dog

“Aesthetes never do anything but what they are told.” 

“The aesthete aims at harmony rather than beauty. If his hair does not match the mauve sunset against which he is standing, he hurriedly dyes his hair another shade of mauve. If his wife does not go with the wall-paper, he gets a divorce.”

“The reformer is always right about what is wrong. He is generally wrong about what is right.” 

“Reason is always a kind of brute force; those who appeal to the head rather than the heart, however pallid and polite, are necessarily men of violence. We speak of ‘touching’ a man’s heart, but we can do nothing to his head but hit it

“Man is always something worse or something better than an animal; and a mere argument from animal perfection never touches him at all. Thus, in sex no animal is either chivalrous or obscene. And thus no animal invented anything so bad as drunkeness – or so good as drink.”

“When we step into the family, by the act of being born, we do step into a world which is incalculable, into a world which has its own strange laws, into a world which could do without us, into a world we have not made. In other words, when we step into the family we step into a fairy-tale.” 

“A thing may be too sad to be believed or too wicked to be believed or too good to be believed; but it cannot be too absurd to be believed in this planet of frogs and elephants, of crocodiles and cuttle-fish.”

“Charity means pardoning the unpardonable, or it is no virtue at all. Hope means hoping when things are hopeless, or it is no virtue at all. And faith means believing the incredible, or it is no virtue at all.”

“The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.”

“There are people who have money and people who are rich.”

“In order to be irreplaceable, one must always be different.”

A girl should be two things: classy and fabulous.”

“Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman.”

“Nature gives you the face you have at twenty. Life shapes the face you have at thirty. But at fifty you get the face you deserve.”

 “Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.”

“All men are children, and if you understand that, a woman understands everything.”

“Some people think luxury is the opposite of poverty. It is not. It is the opposite of vulgarity.”

“I don’t understand how a woman can leave the house without fixing herself up a little—if only out of politeness. And then, you never know, maybe that’s the day she has a date with destiny. And it’s best to be as pretty as possible for destiny.”

“I don’t care what you think about me. I don’t think about you at all.”

“Success is most often achieved by those who don’t know that failure is inevitable.”

“Adornment, what a science! Beauty, what a weapon! Modesty, what elegance!”

“Don’t spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.”

“A woman who cuts her hair is about to change her life.”

As long as you know men are like children, you know everything!"