I get sent a lot of scripts where you're just the mom.

I'm so sick of people shaming women for being sensitive or vulnerable. It's so bizarre to me... I do have those qualities, and I just don't think there's anything wrong with them.

I was watching TV, and there was this oldies-but-goodies film fest, and 'Lucas' came on. I was like, 'Oh my God, I'm an oldie!'

I was fired from a movie because I did 'Heathers!' I was cast in a movie, and the director saw an advance screening and was offended by it and fired me.

It's all about knowing when to listen to that conversation and - without sounding really hokey - when to tune it out and follow your heart.

It used to be that you commit to something, and then basically you spend your year doing that. Now there's a constant conversation of how you have to keep working in order to remind people that you're around.

You have to work to be relevant. If you don't, then people will forget, and the studios won't want you because they won't remember the last thing you did that made money.

I was single for a while and dating and... I just didn't know how to do it! I've always been like that: when I was 15, there was a guy I liked, and we made out, and I thought that meant he was my boyfriend.

Googling yourself is maybe one of the worst things you can do. I did it once, and someone had to talk me off a ledge.

I feel like I had to learn how to take care of myself and find out what made me happy aside from just making films.

I am not a person who can really sit around and think about regrets because with every bad experience that you have, there is weirdly something good that comes from it.

I love photography and first editions. I have that in my genes. My father was an archivist.

I would love to someday do a play. I did one when I was very young in San Francisco, where I grew up. A girl can dream.

I'm the type who'd rather not work than work on something I'm not into. I've done that a couple of times, and I feel like I can totally see it in my performance.

It's equally as important to me to be a good friend and a good sister and a good daughter. I'm very close with my family and friends.

I've loved making movies. I feel like I've been so lucky because I've gotten to be in movies that are some of my favorites, regardless of my being in them - like 'Heathers.'

I'm not interested in playing the girl that's just there to make the guy, you know, give him a talking to.

Even though 'Heathers' didn't make a lot of money, I really was able to transition into a situation where people thought I could play an attractive role because of it.

I loved movies, but I can't remember ever really wanting to be an actress, and I certainly didn't imagine ever being in a movie. I think I wanted to be a writer.

I've learned that it's OK to be flawed, that life can be messy, that some days you glide and some days you fall, but most important, that there are no secret answers out there.

I think I really scored with my parents. All of my friends pretty much came from broken homes, and my parents are still together, but not only that, they're still in love and still write together.

Crazy isn't being broken, or swallowing a dark secret. It's you or me, amplified.

My parents are awesome, but they're pretty left-wing.

You have good days and bad days, and depression's something that, you know, is always with you.

I love books and going to bookstores. My favorite sound is the sound of the needle hitting the record.

A woman who wears high heels is very different, I think, than a woman who wears sandals.

What's awful about being famous and being an actress is when people come up to you and touch you. That's scary, and they just seem to think it's okay to do it, like you're public property.

I don't want to preach, and I don't want to tell people what to do.

I love westerns. John Ford is one of the 10 best directors.

I've learned that it's OK to be flawed.

You can't pay enough money to... cure that feeling of being broken and confused.

My father is an atheist. My mother is Buddhist. They encouraged my siblings and me to take the best part of other religions to make our own belief system.

For a long time, I was almost ashamed of being an actress. I felt like it was a shallow occupation. People would be watching my every move.

I write pretty much every day, but I don't have any desire to publish anything.

If I showed you scripts from my first few movies, the descriptions of my characters all said 'the ugly girl'.

I'm quite comfortable looking at myself in movies, probably because I've been doing it for so long, since I was a kid. So I sort of watched myself grow up and go through adolescence, like, basically on camera.

I thought it was a cool parallel. Being replaced by the young thing. I know that definitely happens in Hollywood. It's harder to find good roles, and suddenly there's new girls. I'm at that age I've been warned my whole life about.

As an actress, you want to try new things. You don't want to repeat yourself. That becomes more important to you, as you get older.

It's really good to be able to think about past loves without having a pit in my stomach, or cringing or feeling heart-broken, or like they hate you. Don't you think?

I remember when I first started being in magazines, I had pretty thin skin. I was this nerd that read books and stayed home and didn't go out.

I feel my best when I'm happy.

I'd always find the positive in someone.

There was a time when I was 19 when I really, really, really thought I was going crazy. I was exhausted and going through a terrible depression.

I don't use the Internet, but apparently you can find out everything on it.

You go through spells where you feel that maybe you're too sensitive for this world. I certainly felt that.

I remember the whole thing with the word ambition. I was messed up for a while because I associated it with certain people who just want to be famous. I think, for a while, it was kind of a dirty word for women.

It's just people should realize that the celebrity aspect of being an actor is very rarely enjoyable for people like me who would always rather go unnoticed and disappear into the crowd.

As an actress, you go where the stories are. I don't really care where it's seen, at this point. I just want to tell good stories and do good roles that I haven't done before.

It's part of the celebrity process but my life has never been as interesting or as wild as what's been printed about me.

I'm quite comfortable looking at myself in movies, probably because I've been doing it for so long, since I was a kid. So I sort of watched myself grow up and go through adolescence, like, basically on camera.