I don't think the idea of being seen changes in its importance. I think it's always true. When relationships start to have problems, it's almost always because we don't feel seen by that person anymore.

You know he's invested when he doesn't treat his 'friend time' and 'girlfriend time' as mutually exclusive.

Women in their thirties are much more nervous about dating. They feel time is 'running out for them. They want to get married and have a family. The women I see in their forties and fifties know what they want. They are amazing, confident women with good jobs, but they are just struggling to find someone who is their equal.

Here's the truth that everyone misses - you must not invest in a guy based on how much you like him. You have to invest in a guy based on how much he invests in you.

There's nothing like a man watching a roomful of guys look his woman up and down to make him desire what he already has (and vice versa).

So many books are designed to help you with your love life spend their time telling you what you can't do. What I love about 'Get The Guy' is it spends the majority of its time telling you what you can do.

Women often try too hard to say what they think a man wants to hear, to like what he likes, to laugh at every joke, and get so nervous talking about themselves that nothing interesting comes out.

There's so much more to a book than just the reading.

I had a brother who was my savior, made my childhood bearable.

I adored Mickey Mouse when I was a child. He was the emblem of happiness and funniness.

Newt Gingrich is an idiot of great renown... There's something so hopelessly gross and vile about him it's hard to take him seriously.

I don't write for children. I write and someone says it's for children.

You know who my gods are, who I believe in fervently? Herman Melville, Emily Dickinson - she's probably the top - Mozart, Shakespeare, Keats. These are wonderful gods who have gotten me through the narrow straits of life.

Most children - I know I did when I was a kid - fantasize another set of parents. Or fantasize no parents. They don't tell their real parents about that - you don't want to tell Mom and Dad. Kids lead a very private life. And I was a typical child, I think. I was a liar.

Girls are infinitely more complicated than boys and women more than men. And there's no doubt about that. We just don't like to think about it. Certainly the men don't like to think about it.

I didn't have much confidence in myself... never.

I don't believe in an afterlife but I still fully expect to see my brother again.

There must be more to life than having everything.

I'm totally crazy, I know that.

My work is not great, but it's respectable. I have no false illusions.

We're animals. We're violent. We're criminal.

I don't need faith.

I'm sick of 'Wild Things.'

Do parents sit down and tell their kids everything? I don't know. I don't know.

In plain terms, a child is a complicated creature who can drive you crazy. There's a cruelty to childhood, there's an anger.

I've convinced myself - I hope I'm right - that children despair of you if you don't tell them the truth.

I think people should be given a test much like driver's tests as to whether they're capable of being parents! It's an art form. I talk a lot. And I think a lot. And I draw a lot. But never in a million years would I have been a parent. That's just work that's too hard.

To get a child's trust - you may know or not - is a very hard thing to do. They're so used to not believing adults - because adults tell tales and lies all the time.

I have a good life.

When I did 'Bumble-ardy,' I was so intensely aware of death. Eugene, my friend and partner, was dying here in the house when I did 'Bumble-ardy'. I did 'Bumble-ardy' to save myself. I did not want to die with him. I wanted to live, as any human being does.

I did not know how to paint a mural. I did not know how to prepare the surface. There was nobody from the Renaissance around who could advise me, and I did the best I could.

Finding out that I was gay when I was older was a shock and a disappointment.

You cannot write for children They're much too complicated. You can only write books that are of interest to them.

'Hansel and Gretel' is one of the scariest stories ever written! Psychotic mother; stupid, inane father.

I'm an illustrator. I have to accept my role.

I have to accept my role. I will never kill myself like Vincent Van Gogh. Nor will I paint beautiful water lilies like Monet. I can't do that. I'm in the idiot role of being a kiddie book person.

That always seemed to be the most critical test that a child was confronted with - loss of parents, loss of direction, loss of love. Can you live without a mother and a father?

My life in Brooklyn was in constant danger because of my bad health.

As a kid, all I thought about was death. But you can't tell your parents that.

I'm a lucky buck.

I have this idiot name tag which says 'controversial.'

Childhood is a tricky business. Usually, something goes wrong.

I became a set designer for opera.

There's something in this country that is so opposed to understanding the complexity of children.

I don't have kids at all and I thank God that I never did.

I hate people.

I only have one subject. The question I am obsessed with is: How do children survive?

Oh, I adored Mickey Mouse when I was a child. He was the emblem of happiness and funniness. You went to the movies then, you saw two movies and a short. When Mickey Mouse came on the screen and there was his big head, my sister said she had to hold onto me. I went berserk.

I want to be alone and work until the day my heads hits the drawing table and I'm dead. Kaput. I feel very much like I want to be with my brother and sister again. They're nowhere. I know they're nowhere and they don't exist, but if nowhere means that's where they are, that's where I want to be.

I'm not Hans Christian Anderson. Nobody's gonna make a statue in the park with a lot of scrambling kids climbing up me. I won't have it, okay?