“You must always work not just within but below your means. If you can handle three elements, handle only two. If you can handle ten, then handle five. In that way the ones you do handle, you handle with more ease, more mastery and you create a feeling of strength in reserve.”

“To copy others is necessary, but to copy oneself is pathetic.”

“What one does is what counts and not what one had the intention of doing.”

“I do not evolve, I AM.”

“Art is theft.”

“Academic training in beauty is a sham. When we love a woman, we don't start measuring her legs.”

“It takes a long time to become young.”

“I am a woman. Every artist is a woman and should have a taste for other women. Artists who are homosexual cannot be true artists because they like men, and since they themselves are women they are reverting to normality.”

“There's nothing more difficult than a line.”

“Learn the rule like a pro so you can break them like an artist.”

“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.”

“I am a Communist and my painting is Communist painting.”

“People who read are people who dream.”

“learn the rules like a professional, so you can break them like an artist.”

“It takes a long time to become young”

“Inspiration existis, but it has to find us working.”

“It is a miracle that one does not dissolve into one's bath like a lump of sugar.”

“Some painters turn a yellow dot into the sun, others turn the sun into a yellow dot.”

“I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it”

“We artists are indestructible, even in a prison cell or a concentration camp I would be all right in my own world of art. Even if I had to paint my pictures with my tongue on the dusty floor of my cell.”

“Go and do the things you can’t. That is how you get to do them.”

“How is it possible to be uninterested in other men and by virtue of what cold nonchalance can you detach yourself from the life that they supply so copiously?”

“I begin with an idea, and then it becomes something else.”-Pablo Picasso- read 6/3/17”

“We all know that art is not truth. Art is a lie that makes us realize truth, at least the truth that is given us to understand.”

“I don't develop; I am.”

“Every act of creation is first an act of destruction.”

“Nothing is worse than a brilliant beginning.”

“I'd like to live like a poor man - only with lots of money.”

“The bad artists imitate, the great artists steal.”

“You have to wake people up! To revolutionize their way of identifying things...you've got to create images they won't accept.”

“Stop. Right now. Remake your life from the inside out.''

''I tried all the outside ways first—I imagined the changes I needed to make were about time management, or perhaps having the cleaners come more often. I quickly found it was not about managing time or housekeeping. It was not about to-do lists or scheduling or minutes and hours. This journey has been about love, about worth, about God, about what it means to know him and be loved by him in a way that grounds and reorders everything.''

''The skills that take you through the first half of your life are entirely unhelpful for the second half. To press the point a little bit: those skills I developed that supposedly served me well for the first half, as I inspect them a little more closely, didn’t actually serve me at all. They made me responsible and capable and really, really tired. They made me productive and practical, and inch by inch, year by year, they moved me further and further from the warm, whimsical person I used to be . . . and I missed her.''

''Leave behind the heavy weight of comparison, competition, and exhaustion, and to recraft a life marked by meaning, connection, and unconditional love.''

''It astounds me to realize that the groundedness is within me, and that maybe it was there all along.''

''No more pushing and rushing. No more cold pizza at midnight, no more flights, no more books, no more houseguests, no more of all these things, even things I love, things I long for, things that make me happy. No more. Only less.Less of everything. Less stress. Less crying. Less noise. Less TV. Less wine.Less online shopping. Less one more thing one more thing one more thing, whether that one more thing is a trip or a movie or a boat ride or a playdate. Less cramming 36—or 56 or 106—hours into a day that has only ever held 24.''

I don’t operate in later. I’ve always been proud of that. But look where it’s gotten me. Stuffed. Exhausted. Wrung out and over-scheduled to the point where even things I love to do sound like obligations, and all my deepest desires and fantasies involve sleep and being left alone. My greatest dream is to be left alone? Things have gone terribly awry.''

''Part of being an adult is taking responsibility for resting your body and your soul. And part of being an adult is learning to meet your own needs, because when it comes down to it, with a few exceptions, no one else is going to do it for you.''

''I knew that I needed to work less. That’s absolutely true. That’s the first step.But it’s trickier than that: the internal voice that tells me to hustle can find a to-do list in my living room as easily as it can in an office. It’s not about paid employment. It’s about trusting that the hustle will never make you feel the way you want to feel. In that way, it’s a drug, and I fall for the initial rush every time:if I push enough, I will feel whole. I will feel proud, I will feel happy. What I feel, though, is exhausted and resentful, but with well-organized closets.''

''You can make a drug—a way to anesthetize yourself—out of anything:working out, binge-watching TV, working, having sex, shopping, volunteering,cleaning, dieting. Any of those things can keep you from feeling pain for a while —that’s what drugs do. And, used like a drug, over time, shopping or TV or work or whatever will make you less and less able to connect to the things that matter, like your own heart and the people you love. That’s another thing drugs do: they isolate you.''

''I’ve been working all my life. Work has been a through line,one that I’m very thankful for, one that has taught me so much about the benefits of structure, discipline, skill, communication, and responsibility.But at some point, good clean work became something else: an impossible standard to meet, a frantic way of living, a practice of ignoring my body and my spirit in order to prove myself as the hardest of hard workers.''

''As I unravel the many things that brought me to this crisis point, one is undeniably my own belief that hard work can solve anything, that pushing through is always the right thing, that rest and slowness are for weak people, not for high-capacity people like me.''

''Productivity became my idol, the thing I loved and valued above all else. We all have these complicated tangles of belief and identity and narrative, and one of the early stories I told about myself is that my ability to get-it-done is what kept me around. I wasn’t beautiful. I didn’t have a special or delicate skill. But I could get stuff done, and it seemed to me that ability was my entrance into the rooms into which I wanted to be invited.I couldn’t imagine a world of unconditional love or grace, where people simply enter into rooms because the door is open to everyone.''

''I believed that work would save me, make me happy, solve my problems;that if I absolutely wore myself out, happiness would be waiting for me on the other side of all that work. But it wasn’t. On the other side was just more work. More expectations, more responsibility.''

''There we were, women in our thirties. Educated, married, mothers, women who have careers, who manage homes and oversee companies. And there we were, utterly resigned to lives that feel overly busy and pressurized,disconnected and exhausted.But that’s shifting the blame, right? Who’s the boss, if not us? Who’s forcing us to live this way? Or, possibly, do we not want to face the answer to that question, preferring to believe we can’t possibly be held responsible for what we’ve done?''

''And many of us continue to pretend we don’t have a choice—the success just happened, and we’re along for the ride. The opportunities kept coming, and anyone in our position would have jumped to meet them.But we’re the ones who keep putting up the chairs. If I work in such a way that I don’t have enough energy to give to my marriage, I need to take down some chairs. If I say yes to so many work things that my kids only get to see tired mommy, I need to take down some chairs.''

''The word that changed everything, of course, is no. I’d been saying yes and yes and yes, indiscriminately, haphazardly, resentfully for years. And I realized all at once that I’d spent all my yeses, and in order to find peace and health in my life,I needed to learn to say no.''

''My mentor’s words rang in my ears: Stop. Right now. Remake your life from the inside out. I don’t know a way to remake anything without first taking down the existing structures, and that’s what no does—it puts the brakes on your screaming-fast life and gives you a chance to stop and inspect just exactly what you’ve created for yourself, as difficult as that might be.''

''Some people are very uncomfortable with the idea of disappointing anyone. They think that if you are kind, you’ll never disappoint anyone. They think that if you try hard enough, if you manage your time well enough, if you’re selfless enough, prayerful enough, godly enough, you’ll never disappoint anyone. I fear these people are headed for a rude awakening.''

''We disappoint people because we’re limited. We have to accept the idea of our own limitations in order to accept the idea that we’ll disappoint people. I have this much time. I have this much energy. I have this much relational capacity.And it does get easier. The first few times I had to say no were excruciating.But as you regularly tell the truth about what you can and can’t do, who you are and who you’re not, you’ll be surprised at how some people will cheer you on.And, frankly, how much less you’ll care when other people don’t.''